I decided to bring some flora along for the ride. Don't worry, I didn't bring them out of the state. Well, yes, I do still have the potted plant in my room. |
Leaving camp was difficult, especially when the young sons of one of my amazing camp directors told me that they didn't want me to leave, and when would I be back? It seems like it is getting harder and harder to say goodbye to people and places. I don't know if that is because I'm getting older and my internal clock is saying "look for your roots" or if I know just how difficult it is to actually maintain relationships with seasonal friends. Sure I can, and do, look at seasonal relationships for what they are; opportunities to influence each other. Even if I never see or speak to my friends again it does not negate the time we did spend together or the way they have changed the way I think, act, or feel. The advantage to having made this transition so many times I also know that those friends will always be friends. When I run into them months or years from now, we will still be friends.
Exhibit A:
My past housemate Mike, all dressed up as the Red Baron ready to ride his plane into battle with Snoopy. |
The hard goodbyes were made easier because on my drive from Sanborn toward Montana, I visited with a lot of great friends from my past experiences. I even met up with a friend from Ohio who happened to be in Rocky Mountain National Park! I stopped in Denver and stayed at my favorite "second home" in Colorado. Then on to my "home"; Fort Collins. The weekend that I stopped by was the fun and ridiculous Tour de Fat, put on by New Belgium Brewery. This festival includes pretty much everything I love in festivals. Bicycles, beer (really good beer), costumes, bike costumes!, friends, games (like jenga built with two-by-fours), and music. They also have food, I guess if I have one area that could improve it would be in the food arena though. It is basically a citywide party, the kind of party I can get behind!
Not the huge Jenga, but we played a little "Jumbling Tower" in the back yard after all the festivities in town. |
I'm still reading! Keep posting. In fact I think I check close to every day. Yes I know you posted this on Friday, but I read it on Friday, or maybe Saturday. And just so you know I refuse to be a "seasonal friend." Even if we only see each other occasionally. I will never accept it. So there!-KDB
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